OK, for those of you looking to bring the spouse into the bourbon fold with a pow... your going to love this one:

Pink Pom Pom
Milk 2-parts
George Stagg 1-Part
Frangellico 1/2-part
Chocolate Vodka or Cream Da Cocoa 1/2 part
Grenadine 1/4 part

Boston (Shaker) full of Ice - Shake until ice cold, pour into Tom Collins glass with ice, add garnish or umbrella... drink